Do you feel that people don’t like you, despite your best efforts to impress them? If this sounds familiar to you, you aren’t alone. Many people have to deal with not being liked, but there is something you can do about it. You may not even be aware of your behaviors and bad habits that prevent you from making a great impression on new people and that may distance you from old friends.
You may blush, as you recognize yourself in some of the reasons why people don’t like you, live in denial of being #18, or even make it all the way to #20 before you understand why you just don’t click with other people.
No matter what behaviors you engage in, we’ll help you stop doing the wrong thing and get you on track to being the trusted confidant of everyone you meet. Read on to find the top 20 reasons people don’t like you and how you can change your behavior and your life to become everyone’s new best friend.
1. It’s all about You
When we meet new people, we can easily get excited and want to share all of the things we are interested in or new projects we are working on, but one sided conversations can instantly distance people. In established relationships, it’s okay to have one-sided conversations from time to time, but if you can’t remember the last time you asked your friends about themselves and don’t know what they like and dislike, then you’ve got to stop talking about yourself and start asking questions that encourage your friends to open up and talk about themselves.